Looking into IT!!

OK.......it has been a while...
so its about time....

What should i talk about??
Recently, it has been crazy...the amount of stuff happening at work, at home, church, friends....etc....

Something i am pondering about.....Normally when you are the firstborn....there are a few traits that you could look out for....
1. Good Leadership skills...
2. Independant
3. Decision maker
4. Organize
5.Detail person.

As i was checkin myself and looking at the stuff i have been doing and they way i have been handling things.....

My personal opinion... i have leadership skills, im quite independant, im a decision maker... im quite organize( the mess in my room dont count ok) but I am just bad with details....Maybe i need to check with mummy if i have a long lost sibling out there.....

Kinda ticks me off sometimes when the truth dawned upon me that I AM NOT A DETAIL PERSON!!!!!
I just overlook things ...especially when it comes to numbers....i am just bad at that...

I had an appraisal just recently...everything else was ok.....but when it comes to the part about being detail...my director stared at me....and asked....har che( that is what everyone calls me ....everywhere)...what do you want me to tick?? i cant even defend myself...i just said...i think i need improvement.....and she said...OBVIOUSLY!!!!! kinda shot me right at my face...
but i just had to admit it......after the appraisal i blew it again and again...
i realize it is such a hard thing to do....

so to all the detail souls in the world....KUDOS to you guys...and please pray for this poor soul here.....

I guess that will be MY NEW YEAR RESOLUTION FOR NEXT YEAR!!!

GOD, HELP THIS POOR CHILD TO BE MORE DETAIL!!!!!!!!


Har!

its about time!!!

hahaha....i know is long overdue..honestly...it is really hard to keep up with a blog..,...but i will try harder....
ok.....some highlights. of what has been happening so far.....

WORK...is awesome....i am actually liking it...and really enjoying what im doing now.....i think a very big part of it is because of the ppl i am working with....i have real cool manager...who does stuff with me....just get crazy together sometimes...and on top of that....she is really good at what she is doing.......things are goin pretty well and im getting good at what i am doing......feels good....

DAD......dad is in south africa now with mei.......all this while it has been dad providing for us everywhere we go....but this time is something diferent....both me and mei actually provided for his whole entire trip...from getting some warm cloths,new pair of shoes....some african currencies....feels good to be able to do something for him......

CHURCH......woo hoo...i played drums last week for church..really unexpected that it will be that soon.....thought i will still have to play the keys for a bit....but all the drummers in CHC not around......oppurtunity for me....im glad......had a lot of fun....getting to know a lot of ppl better in church......starting a whole new set of relationships and God is just teaching me a lot through these ppl.......DEDICATION is one......that is really one thing...i need to learn.......i will be playing again this weekend......nervous...but i am excited...the last time i played was probably more than a year ago..long i know..........

i have not been hitting the gym or doing any kind of sports for quite some time.....thats because i injured my leg ....it was kind of bad lah......some ligament injury...but is all good now......i really miss playing sports.....i use to do it at least 2 to 3 times a week...not playing sports for a month......feels weird to me...so from now on....i must i must do more sports.....swimming, badminton...futsal (maybe).......plus im putting on weight....feels fat man....doesnt help when you have friends that temps you with cheese bacon nun, carbonara and stuff.....so work hard yo!!! RANDOM i know...cause i dont know what to write d......

oklah...thats all for now........

har

August 2nd.

Hi PPL.......

Just and announcement....

I WILL BE BLOGGING SOON!!!!

Har...

Early!

Is about 620 in the morning now. I woke up at about 530 this morning and dont really know what to do...so blogging will be it lah...if not i can already sense another threat coming along..

These past few months in fact has been crazy for me...busy with loads of stuff...and been travelling for quite a bit. Just last 2 weeks i was in singapore..... it was a really last minute thing...but i thank God for that opportunity to go.....

It happened on a tuesday evening...coming back from gym with Ks....i received a phone call from Shirley from church.....she asked a this...."hey, you free this coming weekend?" ...i thought she is going to check with me whether i will be goin to church cause i have been missing for a few sundays....due to some travelling...and here and there lah.....i said yes im free.....then she asked if im interested to go to singapore for a drumfest....and church will be sending me there. without hesitating...i just said yes.....and she said "ok....will call you again for more details". I invited ks along...and to my surprise...she can go as well....there go 2 drum freaks to a drum fest!!! hahaha.....

I didnt know what kind of fest it is goin to be...then when i check again....i was just blown away....Gregg bisonette( drummer for steve vai and joe satriani), Nate Morton (rock star drummer), Gordon Campbell (Mary j. blige, brandy etc), Tony royster jr, Jo jo mayer, steve thornton, grant collin and etc .....10 great drummers...... 2 days.....10 to 8 pm for 2 days...hectic but blown away.....we had a great great time......besides the drum fest...i got to know some of my church members better.....ppl like audrey, hanna, sharon, emilia,eric and adam...they were a great and funny bunch.... . My favorite drummer is Gregg Bisonette.....
i am sure there will be pictures up in Ks's blog....so check it out there...

I miss JANE SEBASTIAN!!!!!!!!!!!! band ....we are goin to raub soon...details....will be up soon...

oh ya...i took off my braces......but Kysern didnt notice....haih......saw him yesterday...and he didnt notice....is ok.. :(
but feels funny to have straight teeth though... and i have finally got my car....still getting use to it.....oklah....long enough.....

michelle....where were you...when i had my first mcdeluxe bite?? BRAbossa dont love me!!!!!!

har

Still the same password!

thank God my password is still the same!

The pass month has been crazy....hospital, bangkok, birthday,preparation for the gig...all in one month...
Dengue was a torture...i felt really week. Cant do anything. Felt a little paralyze. all i could do was just lie down and rest. How pathetic. But what to do. My whole family has been hit by dengue. Started with grandma, then me, then uncle, then sister then dad...but thank God all well now. It was so torturing but i have friends that came to me, Har can i stay in your house. They really wanted the dengue too. Yes, I lost 7 kg's. But now all gain back....so is just temporal. No point getting it.


That week itself i was sent to Bangkok for a little task and a lot of shopping. But because i was really weak , I didnt really enjoy the shopping but i did enjoy the massage. I bought heaps of underwears and girls.....please wear it....especially the one michelle is having.so cute right...

Then came my birthday....seriously i was really scared when they blind folded me. I didnt know what they are goin to do to me. Just felt scared. U know la...the past 2 years...i didnt get anything nice.ade hor, jane seb and jane c hor..SARA LEE hor...KS hor!!!!.but this time...it was great.had my favorited blueberry cheese....thanks KS for planning and all those who followed plans and not did other wise. I was actually afraid that they will throw me into the lake. Just a note to Diana....I AM PLANNING YOUR BIRTHDAY!!!!
THen paid lunch with Cheryl. is funny that it was my birthday but i had to buy her a birthday gift on that day.
Dinner with my buddies ....pam,diana, kai kai, ling, jo, a.a,u.k, adreana and adreana's friend. then met up with Sara, Tzi Li, Mel Ko Ko, Sheila, Amy and Sam in Starbucks Centro.

Thank you guys so much. IT has been awesome.
I will blog about the gig...another time....till then...cheerios..

down with love...

Diana reporting live on Har's blog.

Har was admitted into the hospital for dengue fever. I've checked with the nurse and confirmed - Har will not die.

Not yet.

She still have to play at the FGA gig, head the ISCF Pre-Rally, ISCF Rally, go to Jakarta to attend some conference, serve as a musician in CHC, attend cell group, buy new car, buy me my birthday present, go to Bali, buy me my Christmas present, let me play drums on her wedding, she sing in mine, etc etc...

She's still got lots to do, so cannot die first.

Here is the ah leong che posing as a drug addict... more like TVB addict!!!

For those who came visited her, THANK YOU!

For those who didn't come... just watch your back & sleep with your eyes open!

*out*

First to BLOG!!!!

OK.....i am quite sure to be the first to blog today...haha...im quick....Mich...you dont have to make me this time k......It has been an exciting week for me.....Malacca was cool..had great fun with the Oh's,Sebastian,Chong, See and one Leong. These people use to be church friends and church aunty's and uncle's. But now that we have taken different path is funny to still find the bond.The closeness is just awesome. A. Tina and Teck Chiang (U. Charles) they are like parents to all. Will never say no whenever any of us crashes their holiday. Cook for us, go out and buy the good food early in the morning while we were still snoozing....Clean up for us. Anyway,Oh's pass the message to your parents...they are cool man!!!

Ok..BUKIT CAHAYA...a MIRACLE took place. DIANA CHONG SU IE (DRAGON LADY) went with us...yes...Believe it or not...is true.......The weather was kind of shiny and hot and in the midst of that there were a few drops of rain. Some of us assume that God was so touch by seeing Diana on the bike and shed a few tears and said....."THERE IS STILL HOPE IN YOU, MY DAUGHTER"!!!!!!!!!!
Muscles aching everywhere,.....but is all good...loving those aches......
ok....Time for pictures....JANE PLEASE TAKE NOTE!!!!!

In conclusion...I LOVE MY BAND!!!!!!!!!!! Random i know..but i do love the band!!!!

The tag thingy!

ok.....this time no threat but since im free...why not...
but i still need jane to beautify this for me......

10 weird things about me.....

1. I can exercise for an hour but yet i dont sweat. Ppl think im crazy...
2. I like to powder my neck and my arms...the really obvious type...
3. I have meals and movies(sometimes) alone and I kinda like it.
4. I like "nice and tight" ass.I love guys with nice ass. I won't give examples...ask me i will tell you.
5. I like having muscles ache. Makes me feel good!
6. I trust Diana and Pam totally when it comes to dressing. I just remembered, they made me wear long skirts, with boots and they made me think that is COOL!!
7. I like to play with my grandma's belly. Love shaking it. Nice!
8. Young ppl normally does internet banking but i actually like transaction over the counter or machines when making payments. I find that fun....or perhaps just old...
9. I dont like rainy days. Makes me feel restricted.
10. haha...i like this...Mei...dont kill me...
I like to throw my used underwears/ socks at my sis's face and make her smell it.then ask her...nice ah?

oklah...thats all the weird stuff about me...some quite disgusting i know....and jane....i dont know how to do the beginning part...please help.....it took me so long to complete that man...
ok...till i blog again...

cheers

yeah blogging...BLOGGING!!!

This week...3 threats to change my password.....warning came without my notice....
so no choice...is 218 now....still have to blog!

Let me tell you guys something that i was happy about......just last week i received a call from ann...she asked me if i want to go for hillsongs...then i told her...cannot lah...no money...then she says...i will pay for your hillsongs conference and accomodation.....then got me a little excited......then i went to check how much the air ticket...whether i got leaves or not.....everything seems to be fine.....so i told her...most likely i will be coming....then i checked the air ticket is 2800...very expensive...then i told her again.,...ann...the ticket is 2800 very expensive...then she says...why not i pay AUD 500 for your air ticket...that means i only need to take out 1000 plus...what a good deal.....

but after some thought about applying leaves....i have decided not to go.due to the rush and ann and her gang already made a lot of prior arrangement...so if i do go..they will have to re-arrange so i think i will pass this time...but she said she will buy me a tic to go see her next year. but u know what.....im really happy....is the thought that counts....is just nice to know that. so Ann if you are reading this..thank you so much!!! ok...i want to put a picture of ann but i dont know how....so again...Jane pls take note.....thanks babe!!!

so that was my hightlight for the week plus i had training the last 2 days in holiday villa.. sales training...dead tiring.....from 9 to 5...but pretty good lah...just wasnt use to sitting down and listen to lectures again...but oh well.....is always good to meet new ppl..

ok....thats all for now....

till they threaten me again!

cheers

OK.....Blog...I know!!!

Why do i have frens that threatens to change my password if i dont blog....WHY? thats why im blogging now...if not i will be in my room watching my tvb.....i dont really care about going online...but now...i think i have to think twice.......

Thanksgiving dinner is just GREAT!! So much fun just hanging out with everyone.....UNITY in that place was awesome.....everyone was just sharing how God has been good to all of us through out the conference and how we have blessed each other. About 8 churches there was just an atmosphere of UNITY....LOVE IT.......
The band (drgon diana, mel ko ko, vain sam, baby see and me) did the song SEND OUT A PRAYER.....a song i first heard in 1995. such a good song.....enjoyed the practice and it turn out well...despite some ppl forgetting the lyrics...hahah......thanks guys.... for putting up with my last minute request!!! hehe.....




Watched 300!!!! it was good....after the show i feel like taking up my grandmother's crutches to fight...and just " AH OO" ....great show.....so many things to pick up......from the show....SPARTANS will not RETREAT!!!!! i like that.......
SAturday night was another great night.....outing with my Diana, Jane S, Jane C, Ade, Sam, Mich & Josh....went to Grace Pj to support Sarah and Pet Pet.........they are just a bunch of great ppl....love you guys .......PEt pet if you are reading this......too bad....i still like Pet Pet......hahahah......l

Something miraculous happened on Sunday.....and I assume that, thats the reason why it rained the whole morning....MY SISTER a.k.a LEONG YIN MEI....went to CITY HARVEST CHURCH with me.....it was good to have her...and she hung out with MY frens the whole day.....something i thought would never happen.......i would like to post a picture of her....but i dont know how.....
will do next time...Jane S has taken note!! hehe.. =)



Jane...thanks for the blog recontruction....you ROCK!!!!!

hahahahahaha....i fulfilled my 20 % to God....feels free...i dont owe God money for now.....hahah....

ok ...long enough.....

chiows the meow meow......

EXPANSION!

I spent 30 minutes trying to recover my username...can you believe it....blogspot is complicated.

Last night i had a great time in church. The message was awesome......talking about seeds....I was really moved and challenged by the message. Something that i look forward in doing from now. Yesterday i made a commitment to God that I will tithe 20% of my income. It is actually quite challenging.It is really not easy man...is going to hurt..Moreover my bills this month is going to be crazy...I dont even want to think about it. But I am believing for something great from God. I need a breakthrough in some areas in my life. I am not saying that by giving more money I am paying my way through the breakthrough but I want God to know that I am serious about a new level and I want to justify that with my action. TIME, MONEY, TALENTS,COMFORT!

I only have one resolution for the year. I am afraid of making more because i am afraid of not fulfilling it. This year, I really want to know love Him more.Thats it. One task but not an easy task! Can i do it??? if you notice....my BLOG ENTITLES....PUSHING IT.....and yes...I AM PUSHING IT!!!!!!!!!!!

hmm...i assume my blog looks boring...anyone ...help........desperate...for help!!!! help!!! help!!!!

Suprise!!!

Yes.....I am blogging....but i dont know how interesting i can make this or how long i can sustain my blogging journey...since is the " in " thing to do now.....why not....

I think all of you would agree with me that time flies and is already end of March..Before this, I was just too busy with the conference. Any other plans that came to me, I will just shrug it off and say hmmmm...talk to me after the conference. Now that is over, there are something i need to make a commitment to. It is something i have been doing for months. But u know, when certain things are said.....it can't return and I really don't want to commit to something that I am not ready to fulfill. So....I am just going to give myself another week to think thru things.

Honestly, I have nothing to write for now....so till I write again.....